I'm happy with who I am, I enjoy my own company and while I would love to have someone to love, it's not something that is going to force me to be in relationships. I have faith that the love I want will find me, so I tend not to date.
I know I could be seen as prude or shallow in some ways- conscerning this. I have had some young, stupid fun. I guess I have just not found anyone with the right intellectual, emotional connections yet.